I am a scared person. Let's be honest, I am usually a
baby. Especially when it comes to the unknown. To overcome this flaw,
one coping mechanism that I have learned is to be hopeful. I'm not
talking, "I think I am going to win the lottery" hopeful, but "I will
come out of this situation a better/stronger person" hopeful. Because
when it comes down to it, you are defined by the way that you come out
of any given situation.
1. Stop and look at the small things. Notice that a new flower is coming
up out of the soil. Notice the mom's love for her child as she hushes
the baby and walks out of the meeting. Notice the curiosity of a child
as they ask you the 50th question in a row. Stop, look, and appreciate.
2. Write it all out. Yep, you've heard me say this before. But it
really helps me so that means that it must help everyone, right? (note
my sarcasm) But it may help you, you never know. Write a letter to
someone you know. Write a letter to yourself to either keep or destroy.
Write a thank you note to someone who is supporting you in your tough
times. Just write.
3. Do something for someone else. Plain and simple. Maybe you can't
do much... but I am sure that you can do something. So do it, be
selfless and do something. Chances are you will love it.
4. Seek God and the little nuggets of wisdom that He has already given to us. Some verses that I like are: Isaiah 41:10; Psalm 34:4; Psalm 28:7. Maybe you have your own, maybe you want to check out mine. Either way, it is one of the strongest sources of hope.
Do
you have another way that you combat fear and gain hope? Go ahead and
write it down in the comments section so that we can all learn how to
not be trapped by fear... together!
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