Community

      In August, I set a goal. I was going to make sure that I had at least one social event planned every week. At the time, I just thought it was going to be a goal that prevented me from staying in my apartment every night and doing nothing (which I was completely content with). Little did I know that it was going to become a major part of my life. The people that I meet up with have become a huge part of my life. They are the people that I want to share exciting events with. They are the people that I call up when I am afraid to go and do something on my own. They are the people that I swap recipes with. They are the people who let me share stories from work with, whether those stories are frustrating or funny. They are the people that are there for me, in both a physical and emotional sense. They are my community. 

      In preparation for this blog post, I did what all great researchers do... I went on Pinterest. I simply typed "community" into the search bar and perused the things that came up. I looked at quotes from Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Mr. Rodgers, and of course... the cookie monster. But one thing that I noticed as my eyes swept left to right across the pages is that so many of the quotes were about depression. About loneliness. About pain. And it really got me thinking. Do we only view "community" as the anecdote for loneliness (I don't know about you but I have definitely been lonely in a room full of people)? Or do we view it as its own critical part of our well-being? I think we should begin to challenge each other to view it as a critical part of our well being.

      There is a second part of community that I would like to point out. Being in a community helps you to feel like you aren't alone. In the right type of community, it will help you to feel like if you weren't there, someone would notice. Someone would care. For most people, this is a huge thing. It helps them to have the confidence to be who they need to be, who they were created to be.

      According to many experts there are three main types of community: location based, identity based, and organizationally based. As I wrap up my thoughts I challenge you to think about the communities you are a part of. What are they doing for you? What can you do for them? 

      This is something that has been on my mind for a while so feel free to comment below and let me know how community impacts your daily life. I'd love to hear your stories!